26 If anyone serves Me, let him follow Me; and where I am, there My servant will be also. If anyone serves Me, him My Father will honor
Jesus is very present and real. He is not just a person that used to be on earth and He isn't someone that just sits in Heaven and listens to our prayers. It is true, that we can be where Jesus is. We are seated in Heavenly places, scripture says, and we can live so close to Jesus that we can meet with Him before we die. Jesus simply wants us to know Him and to follow in His footsteps.
John 10:27
27 My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me.
There are lot of people that have become Christians and given their lives to Jesus, but they have never heard Jesus speak. The only time some people have heard Jesus speak is in the red letters in the Bible where Jesus spoke two thousand years ago. As His followers we have the right to hear Jesus speak to us spirit to spirit. Jesus can direct you each day via His voice and we can learn to make right choices each day with our lives as Jesus leads us.
Matthew 16:24
24 Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.
To be a follower of Christ Jesus we need to lay down your lives and follow in His footsteps. A life of love for God involves a life of love for your fellow man and to love people often requires sacrifice on our part. If we are not willing to deny ourselves, and to take on a burden for God, we often won't be truly be following Jesus.